[FSDP] Ignore buffer type casting in ignored modules (#106766)
issue resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/97791
before this PR, mixed_precision applies to buffers from ignored modules. see ```test_state_dict_with_ignored_modules(mixed_precision=True)``` for reproduce
after, we avoid applying mixed_precision semantics to buffers from ignored modules
* step 1 initialization: state._ignored_buffer_names contains all the buffers from ignored modules
* step 2 lazy init at runtime: skip ignored buffers in ```_get_buffers_and_dtypes_for_computation```
* step 3 skip upcasting in state_dict hook: avoid upcasting for ignored buffers in ```_get_buffers_and_dtypes_for_computation```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/106766
Approved by: https://github.com/awgu
