Allow disable binary build jobs on CI (#100754)
Given the recent outage w.r.t. binary workflows running on CI, I want to close the gap between them and regular CI jobs. The first part is to add the same filter step used by regular CI jobs so that oncalls can disable the job if need.
* Nightly runs are excluded as it includes the step to publish nightly binaries. Allowing oncalls to disable this part requires more thoughts. So this covers only CI binary build and test jobs
* As binary jobs doesn't have a concept of test matrix config which is a required parameter to the filter script, I use a pseudo input of test config default there
### Testing
* https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/100758. The job is skipped in https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/4911034089/jobs/8768782689
* https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/100759. The job is skipped in https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/4911033966/jobs/8768713669
Note that Windows binary jobs are not run in PR anymore after https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/100638, and MacOS binary jobs only run nightly. So there are only Linux jobs left.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/100754
Approved by: https://github.com/ZainRizvi
