[ci] use lintrunner in CI
This changes our lint workflows to use lintrunner for the linters that
are currently supported
+ some random fixes to make things lint clean on master
+ changes to Makefile to use lintrunner
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/68460
Approved by: https://github.com/t10-13rocket, https://github.com/seemethere, https://github.com/janeyx99
