[memory profiling] add a facility to gather combined C++/Python/TorchScript stack traces. (#95541)
This refactors the stack trace facility specific to memory profiling
in python+cuda to make a generic facility to generate combined stack
traces.
The generic facility (combined_traceback.h) does not require
python to be around to work, but will return python stacks if it is
present.
This facility is then used to add support for stack trace gathering in memory profiling that
happens directly from C++.
It is also used to expose a python API for gathering and symbolizing
combineds stacks.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/95541
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
