[ci] do not run distributed jobs for windows (#73064)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/73064
These accidentally got turned on by https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/73001. Turn them off.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: shannonzhu
Differential Revision: D34332530
Pulled By: suo
fbshipit-source-id: a6493b7d94465fa9141f1527648dbbec09c5706d
(cherry picked from commit b18c95e4a68e7d96e617edfb83a3e55780b49f4c)
