layernorm (#63436)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/63436
use MKLDNN layernorm
use mkldnn version 2
address Elias feedback
fix build CI errors
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: ngimel
Differential Revision: D30388825
Pulled By: Krovatkin
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