add support for filtering out Bazel targets from common structure (#76173)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/76173
We need this facility temporarily to sequence some changes without
breakage. This is generally not a good idea since the main purpose of
this effort is to replicate builds in OSS Bazel.
ghstack-source-id: 155215491
Test Plan: Manual test and rely on CI.
Reviewed By: dreiss
Differential Revision: D35815290
fbshipit-source-id: 89bacda373e7ba03d6a3fcbcaa5af42ae5eac154
(cherry picked from commit 1b808bbc94c939da1fd410d81b22d43bdfe1cda0)
