[ONNX] Update ONNX to rel-1.9 (#55889) (#57080)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/57080
ONNX optimizer is removed in ONNX 1.9
This PR removes ONNX optimizer from a C++ code path and uses `try-except` block in Python to keep it compatible with both ONNX-1.8 and 1.9.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: heitorschueroff
Differential Revision: D28467330
Pulled By: malfet
fbshipit-source-id: 5e4669dd0537648898e593f9e253da18d6dc7568
Co-authored-by: neginraoof <neginmr@utexas.edu>
Co-authored-by: Nikita Shulga <nshulga@fb.com>
