Update CUDA compiler matrix (#86360)
Switch GCC/Clang max versions to be exclusive as the `include/crt/host_config.h` checks the major version only for the upper bound. This allows to be less restrictive and match the checks in the aforementioned header.
Also update the versions using that header in the CUDA SDKs.
Follow up to #82860
I noticed this as PyTorch 1.12.1 with CUDA 11.3.1 and GCC 10.3 was failing in the `test_cpp_extensions*` tests.
Example for CUDA 11.3.1 from the SDK header:
```
#if __GNUC__ > 11
// Error out
...
#if (__clang_major__ >= 12) || (__clang_major__ < 3) || ((__clang_major__ == 3) && (__clang_minor__ < 3))
// Error out
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/86360
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
