[vulkan] inplace add_, relu_ (#41380)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/41380
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: AshkanAliabadi
Differential Revision: D22754939
Pulled By: IvanKobzarev
fbshipit-source-id: 19b0bbfc5e1f149f9996b5043b77675421ecb2ed
