better support for fakeifying and dynamoing through torch_dispatch subclasses (with dynamic shapes) (#107415)
There is already some support for plumbing `__torch_dispatch__` tensor subclasses through dynamo, but this PR beefs it up a bit and adds a test. In particular:
(1) Fakeifying tensor subclasses didn't properly set autograd metadata (requires_grad, is_leaf) on the newly fakeified wrapper subclass. I don't actually have a test for this in this PR, but it's tested pretty heavily later in my aot autograd tests
(2) Fakeifying tensor subclasses didn't properly track source information for dynamic shapes on the inner tensors. I added a new `WrapperSubclassFieldSource` subclass, that represents a source coming from a tensor field on a wrapper subclass, which I use in the fakeifying logic, and again in symbolic_shapes.py to generate proper guards.
(3) `_make_wrapper_subclass()` marginally updated this code to work better with dynamic shapes. One thing that's a bit weird about `_make_wrapper_subclass`: it has two overloads, and the first explicitly does not support dynamic shapes (and the second.. does not support kwargs). I think that later we probably want to consolidate / at least make the first overload work with dynamic shapes, but I didn't want to handle that in this PR (so these smaller changes seemed like a strict improvement).
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/107415
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
