[c10d] Comment out ddp_hook_with_optimizer_parity tests (#100215)
This is a mirror PR of D45339293
Summary:
These tests cause the following errors internally with unknown reason:
```
AttributeError: type object 'TestDistBackendWithSpawn' has no attribute 'test_ddp_hook_with_optimizer_parity_adam'
AttributeError: type object 'TestDistBackendWithSpawn' has no attribute 'test_ddp_hook_with_optimizer_parity_adamw'
AttributeError: type object 'TestDistBackendWithSpawn' has no attribute 'test_ddp_hook_with_optimizer_parity_sgd'
```
Commenting these tests out to unblock other PRs.
Test Plan: Sandcastle
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/100215
Approved by: https://github.com/wz337, https://github.com/fduwjj
