Make _Join, _Joinable, _JoinHook public (#62605)
Summary:
**Overview:**
This removes the preceding `_` from `_Join`, `_Joinable`, and `_JoinHook` in preparation for adding the generic join context manager tutorial (see [here](https://github.com/pytorch/tutorials/pull/1610)). This also adds a docs page, which can be linked from the tutorial. [Here](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/files/6919475/render.pdf) is a render of the docs page.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/62605
Test Plan:
`DistributedDataParallel.join()`:
```
touch /tmp/barrier && TEMP_DIR="/tmp" BACKEND="nccl" WORLD_SIZE="2" gpurun python test/distributed/test_distributed_fork.py -- TestDistBackendWithFork.test_ddp_uneven_inputs TestDistBackendWithFork.test_ddp_uneven_inputs_stop_iteration_sync_bn TestDistBackendWithFork.test_ddp_grad_div_uneven_inputs TestDistBackendWithFork.test_ddp_uneven_input_join_disable TestDistBackendWithFork.test_ddp_uneven_input_exception
```
`ZeroRedundancyOptimizer`:
```
gpurun4 python test/distributed/optim/test_zero_redundancy_optimizer.py
```
NOTE: DDP overlap tests are failing due to a landing race. See https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/62592. Once the fix is landed, I will rebase, and tests should be passing.
`Join`:
```
gpurun4 python test/distributed/algorithms/test_join.py
```
Reviewed By: mrshenli
Differential Revision: D30055544
Pulled By: andwgu
fbshipit-source-id: a5ce1f1d9f1904de3bdd4edd0b31b0a612d87026
