[vulkan] Efficient gemm implementation (#49609)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/49609
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: AshkanAliabadi
Differential Revision: D26209677
Pulled By: SS-JIA
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