Update cusparse deprecated Xcsrmm2 call (#37202)
Summary:
Reland of https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/36845 due to Windows CI failure.
binary_windows_wheel_3_7_cu102_build is passed, so the windows guard should be fine this time.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/37202
Differential Revision: D21233358
Pulled By: xw285cornell
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