Back out "Revert D19871946: [distributed] pass in timeout to TCP store when initializing" (#33434)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/33434
Reland of https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/33325, since the
unit test was flaky and failed on land.
To ensure that the test is not flaky, I bumped the timeout so the rendezvous
does not timeout (timing out the rendezvous in 1s led to the flakiness). I also
generalized our mechanism for retrying on errors to include retrying on errors
due to timeout in rendezvous.
ghstack-source-id: 98558377
Test Plan: Added UT test_tcp_store_timeout_set
Differential Revision: D19935390
fbshipit-source-id: 56ccf8c333dd2f954a33614d35cd1642d4e9473a
