Regularize mask handling for attn_mask and key_padding_mask (#92733)
Summary:
Regularize mask handling for attn_mask and key_padding_mask
* Update documentation to remove reference to byte masks (which were deprecated long ago)
* Introduce check and warn about deprecation if attn_mask and key_padding_mask types mismatch
* Convert all masks to float before combining
* Combine by adding
Test Plan: sandcastle & github CI
Differential Revision: D42653215
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/92733
Approved by: https://github.com/ngimel, https://github.com/drisspg
