fix cudnn static linkage (#25848)
Summary:
Fix regression caused by https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/24938
This fixes CUDA nightly breakages
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/25848
Differential Revision: D17256348
Pulled By: soumith
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