[fix] accounting for dilation in pool padding assertion (#118897)
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/7541
It is a copy of https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/111427, I have failed to fix all its issues in time, and it got closed.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/118897
Approved by: https://github.com/mikaylagawarecki
