[FSDP][state_dict][5/N] Remove the FSDP module dependency from _state_dict_utils (#88637)
**What**
This PR completely removes the `FullyShardedDataParallel` dependency from `_state_dict_utils` -- `_state_dict_utils` now depends only on `_FSDPState` and all the utils modules.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/88637
Approved by: https://github.com/awgu
