[state_dict][3/N] Cleanup StateDictOptions, make it more readable (#111275)
This is a reland PR for https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/111108 with the proper docstring fix.
1. Rename DistributedStateDictOptions to StateDictOptions.
2. Remove cpu_offload as we have not yet required this option.
3. Rename save_frozen_parameters to ignore_frozen_params.
Differential Revision: [D50294352](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D50294352/)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/111275
Approved by: https://github.com/wz337
ghstack dependencies: #111106, #111107
