Moves SDPA backward helper native function to functionsmanual.cpp (#95821)
## Summary
chunk_grad_outputs should have been created within functionsmanual.cpp to begin with. This removes it as a native function and adds to its appropriate home.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/95821
Approved by: https://github.com/cpuhrsch, https://github.com/albanD