Reorganize and refine the Windows.h import in C++ files (#48009)
Summary:
This PR aims to reduce the import overhead and symbol noises from the `windows.h` headers.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/48009
Reviewed By: gchanan
Differential Revision: D25045840
Pulled By: ezyang
fbshipit-source-id: 01fda70f433ba2dd0cd2d7cd676ab6ffe9d98b90
