Remove breakpad dependency
This functionality does not seem to be used
and there are some requests to update dependency.
Add `third_party` to torch_cpu include directories if compiling with
Caffe2 support, as `caffe2/quantization/server/conv_dnnlowp_op.cc` depends on `third_party/fbgemm/src/RefImplementations.h`
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/75394
Approved by: https://github.com/janeyx99, https://github.com/seemethere
