[ROCm] Fixes the kernel asserts API declaration mismatch error (#81790)
This problem updates the the PR [#73040](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/73040)
The compilation error in pyTorch with ROCm is successful with these changes when `NDEBUG` is enabled.
Solution:
For HIP we keep `__device__ __assert_fail()`
and for host side compilation we want to use the `__assert_fail()` from the glibc library.
Tested the code by compiling with below steps
```
python3 tools/amd_build/build_amd.py
python3 setup.py develop --cmake-only
cmake -DHIP_HIPCC_FLAGS_RELEASE="-DNDEBUG" build
cmake --build build
```
The UT test_fixed_cuda_assert_async is still skipped due performance overhead.
cc @jithunnair-amd
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81790
Approved by: https://github.com/shintaro-iwasaki, https://github.com/jeffdaily, https://github.com/malfet
