Revert "[ET] Select used et_kernel_metadata only (#103658)"
This reverts commit 480d20cac109836a44971af774184d9a2d98748e.
Reverted https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/103658 on behalf of https://github.com/malfet due to Broke Windows builds ([comment](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/103658#issuecomment-1593696503))
