Check clang++/g++ version when compiling CUDA extensions (#63230)
Summary:
See https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/55267
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/63230
Reviewed By: soulitzer
Differential Revision: D34159119
Pulled By: malfet
fbshipit-source-id: 6eef7582388bf6a42dcc1d82b6e4b1f40f418dd7
(cherry picked from commit 2056d0a0be7951602de22f8d3b4efc28dd71b6c2)
