add additional arm64 checker in cmake files (#48952)
Summary:
tentatively fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/48873
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/48952
Reviewed By: H-Huang
Differential Revision: D25463266
Pulled By: walterddr
fbshipit-source-id: 40afefffe8ab98ae7261c770316cb9c25225285f
