consider numel args when identifying aligned args (#87394)
Fixes #ISSUE_NUMBER
https://github.com/pytorch/torchdynamo/issues/1527
cc @jansel @lezcano @fdrocha @mlazos @soumith @voznesenskym @yanboliang @penguinwu
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/87394
Approved by: https://github.com/jansel
