[PyTorch] Migrate all extant uses of build_binary_op to build_borrowing_binary_op (#58272)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/58272
Borrowing is more efficient, and structured kernels can always borrow.
ghstack-source-id: 129002046
Test Plan: Existing CI
Reviewed By: ezyang
Differential Revision: D28427768
fbshipit-source-id: 6314a682556c6914c843aaacf2d75b2adb164e9a
