[quant] Always match the first matchable pattern in fuse (#75047)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/75047
As title, For instance,
We match two patterns
```
(add, (bn, conv), matchallnode)
(add, matchallnode, (bn, conv))
```
Against the model
```
conv1 -> bn1 |
conv2 -> bn2 + add
```
For the add node, both two patterns passes `is_match` and `apply_match` is executed twice. As a result, both `conv1 -> bn1` and `conv2 -> bn2` will be matched as `(bn, conv)` instead of one `(bn, conv)` one `matchallnode`.
To fix this, stop trying all the other pattners once a pattern is matched.
Test Plan: verified in D35252100
Reviewed By: jerryzh168
Differential Revision: D35300191
fbshipit-source-id: 383b2eb971d436072e1c28597c5b6a01d0f49c5a
(cherry picked from commit 89d08ea2d2840e01ec3dd40da3f58405577c78fc)
