Use shared CUPTI by default (#65401)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/65401
Per https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/57744 statically linked CUPTI
causes exception handling to break on certain compiler configurations, likely
because CUPTI comes with incompatible libstdc++ symbols. Rather than pray that
something reasonable happens, use the safer configuration (dynamic linking) by
default and give a warning if the user inverts the setting.
Signed-off-by: Edward Z. Yang <ezyang@fb.com>
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: gdankel
Differential Revision: D31082208
Pulled By: ezyang
fbshipit-source-id: 14f66af920847e158436b5801c43f3124b109b34
