Implement timeout support for RRefs (#38590)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/38590
This PR implements timeout semantics for RRef for parity with rpc_sync and rpc_async. How it works:
- Timeout parameter is added to rpc.remote. If the rpc.remote call times out, note that the error won't be raised to the user in that call, as it is not blocking (similar to rpc_async). Instead, the timeout error will be raised the next time the RRef is used (either by pickling or to_here call).
- Error handling semantics are added to RRef to deal with the timeout errors. Previously, if there was an error creating the OwnerRRef, the callback on the local user would throw an error in a callback, resulting in an `std::terminate`. Instead of this, the error is now caught and surfaced to the user the next time the RRef is used. As part of this, we have added an `RPCErrorType` enum and defined RRef error handlers to handle the `RPCErrorrTypes` (currently just timeout and unknown)
- A timeout parameter is added to `to_here()` which gives the user control over the max amount of time it can block for.
- `ctx.prepareChildForFork()` which is called when the RRef is pickled (i.e. used as an arg over RPC) checks if the `rpc.remote()` call had timed out, and if so, raises that error to the user.
- Tests are added, primarily via delay injection.
ghstack-source-id: 105232837
Test Plan: CI
Differential Revision: D21588165
fbshipit-source-id: c9f9e8aa3521012ea1de3e0f152a41afdf8b23f3
