[Dynamo+FSDP] Update benchmarks with use_orig_params=True (#90100)
After https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/89523, we now need to assert use_orig_params=True, even in the non-recursive case where (I think) we wouldn't otherwise need to run with use_orig_params=True.
Tested with `python benchmarks/dynamo/torchbench.py --training --accuracy --only hf_T5 --fsdp`
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/90100
Approved by: https://github.com/wconstab
