update android/iOS build library packing (#26565)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/26565
For OSS mobile build we should keep QNNPACK off and PYTORCH_QNNPACK on
as we don't include caffe2 ops that use third_party/QNNPACK.
Update android/iOS build script to include new libraries accordingly.
Test Plan: - CI build
Differential Revision: D17508918
Pulled By: ljk53
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