[dynamo] support FakeTensor for SYM_INT/SYM_INT_LIST/INT_LIST param in python-to-cpp argument parsing (#103448)
before the PR, when compiling a function with signature symint/symintlist/intlist, we have runtime error like ```argument 'shifts' must be tuple of ints, not FakeTensor```. see newly added unit test in test/dynamo/test_misc.py for repro
after the PR, for FakeTensor with empty size and numel()=1, we will try
to convert it into symint/symintlist. we will likely see expected
exception
```torch._subclasses.fake_tensor.DataDependentOutputException / aten._local_scalar_dense.default``` during conversion
reference PR:
* we handle FakeTensor for symintlist as 1st varags: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/97508
* we handle FakeTensor for intlist in a similar way:
https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/85759/files
* call local_scalar_dense on a FakeTensor:
https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/commit/f7365eca901b0ed5c5edc0d2ae92834b7b75c0d2
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/103448
Approved by: https://github.com/yanboliang
