[ONNX] Fix shape inference for large model (#59320) (#60244)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/60244
Do 2GB size check for protocol buffer serialization at a later time, to avoid false alarming for cases like shape inference where no serialization actually happens.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: zou3519, ZolotukhinM
Differential Revision: D29494910
Pulled By: SplitInfinity
fbshipit-source-id: 4c36d26de9a94e5d6cf78f332d4dffc46588ebf0
Co-authored-by: BowenBao <bowbao@microsoft.com>
