[BE] Cleanup CMake flag suppressions (#97584)
Use `append_cxx_flag_if_supported` to determine whether or not `-Werror` is supported
Do not suppress deprecation warnings if glog is not used/installed, as the way check is written right now, it will suppress deprecations even if `glog` is not installed.
Similarly, do not suppress deprecations on MacOS simply because we are compiling with protobuf.
Fix deprecation warnings in:
- MPS by replacing `MTLResourceOptionCPUCacheModeDefault`->`MTLResourceCPUCacheModeDefaultCache`
- In GTests by replacing `TYPED_TEST_CASE`->`TYPED_TEST_SUITE`
- In `codegen/onednn/interface.cpp`, by using passing `Stack` by reference rathern than pointer.
Do not guard calls to `append_cxx_flag_if_supported` with `if(CLANG)` or `if(GCC)`.
Fix some deprecated calls in `Metal` hide more complex exception under `C10_CLANG_DIAGNOSTIC_IGNORE`
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/97584
Approved by: https://github.com/kit1980
