[c10d] Make gather as a custom op (#79687)
Summary:
This patch makes gather as a custom op such that it's dispatcher
passable. It's one part of the effort to route comm ops to the dispatcher
such that tracing mechanisms that relies on the dispatcher can trace them,
e.g., LazyTensor and AOTAutograd.
Test Plan:
python test/distributed/test_c10d_nccl.py -k test_gather_ops
python test/distributed/test_c10d_gloo.py -k test_gather_basics
...and other existing distributed tests.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/79687
Approved by: https://github.com/mrshenli
