[kineto] make input shape collection opt-in for on-demand tracing (#746) (#97917)
Summary:
X-link: https://github.com/pytorch/kineto/pull/746
Make input shape collection opt-in as we are re-rolling out the feature for on-demand tracing. Making this default right away could cause bloated trace size for inferences
Test Plan:
# Repro
## Run
```
buck2 run mode/opt kineto/libkineto/fb/integration_tests:pytorch_resnet_integration_test
```
## Default Path
```
dyno gputrace
```
https://www.internalfb.com/intern/perfdoctor/trace_view?filepath=tree%2Ftraces%2Fdynocli%2F0%2F1679681884%2F127.0.0.1%2Flibkineto_activities_2125213.json.gz&bucket=gpu_traces
## Opt in
```
echo -e "CLIENT_INTERFACE_ENABLE_OP_INPUTS_COLLECTION=true" > /tmp/sigrid_kineto.conf && dyno gputrace --gpuconf /tmp/sigrid_kineto.conf
```
https://www.internalfb.com/intern/perfdoctor/trace_view?filepath=tree%2Ftraces%2Fdynocli%2F0%2F1679682394%2F127.0.0.1%2Flibkineto_activities_2415763.json.gz&bucket=gpu_traces
Reviewed By: aaronenyeshi
Differential Revision: D44377341
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/97917
Approved by: https://github.com/aaronenyeshi
