check params shape for mkldnn_convolution (#76526)
Fixes #73193
Follow check rules from native/Convolution.cpp without transpose supported.
Seems that mkldnn_convolution does not support transpose. ideep has special api for that.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/76526
Approved by: https://github.com/XiaobingSuper, https://github.com/mingfeima, https://github.com/jbschlosser
