[PT2][Quant] Move add/add relu pattern via module partitioner (#102397)
This diff uses module partitioners to find add and add + relu patterns.
Differential Revision: [D46095330](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D46095330/)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/102397
Approved by: https://github.com/jerryzh168