Implement CUDA_KERNEL_ASSERT for MSVC (#39218)
Summary:
Tested locally on CPU/GPU + Debug/Release.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/39218
Differential Revision: D21786500
Pulled By: malfet
fbshipit-source-id: 7e871003d3509436952932b5ff3599e36bb8f205
