Readme: Fix for outdated build-from-source documentation (#91861)
## `pip install -r requirements.txt` in build-from-source documentation
This line
https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/81b5eff3c383f5308416e129861a2689d717702c/README.md?plain=1#L182-L188
Is outdated. Let's default to `requirements.txt`
### My problem
Without touching this codebase for years I'm trying to build repo for local development and run unit tests. I go to `build from source => Contributing.md`. I immediately run into various problems.
* [Contributing.md](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md#developing-pytorch) suggests one way of setting up environment different from [README.md#from-source](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/README.md#from-source) that does not work for me.
* [README.md#from-source](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/README.md#from-source) suggests a different set of dependencies than [`requirements.txt`](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/requirements.txt), many of which are unnecessary, and there's still missing ones to run unit tests.
* Dependencies in `requirements.txt` are needed to run unit tests
So there's competing, inlined and outdated equally confident recommendations on how to set up. https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/91850 tries to remove one recommendation, this PR tries to make the default one simpler.
### Goals
* Improve society somewhat :grin:
* Remove a dead end roundtrip in the developer onboarding funnel
* Update a duplicated & outdated line of documentation
* Two broken things => one broken thing
* Improve doc maintainability and nudge us to a productive discussion of what `requirements.txt` is there for.
### Non-goals
* Give a definite recommendation how to set up your machine for local development. I read the instructions in readme at this moment as an outline on how to do it.
* Say that `requirements.txt` is a definite guide to dependencies, I know it's not (but probably should be)
### Background
* Dependency handling/reproducibility in this repo is tricky! See geist of [this](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/fdbbd20f3289b2878f2fbad3f77bff1ddd375b28/.github/requirements/README.md). There's many different sets of dependencies with different setups for different environments.
* There's been great attempts of _"one requirements.txt to rule them all"_ which got halted https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/60697/ see https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/61375
* The unofficial `requirements.txt` file seem to be .circleci/docker/requirements-ci.txt https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/72556
* Unofficial _"how to build from source"_ docs seem to be here https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/tree/master/.circleci#how-to-build-a-binary-locally
### Considered alternatives
* a) Point only to python dependencies in `requirements.txt` **(Chosen option)**
```
conda install cmake ninja
pip install -r requirements.txt
```
This guarantees `python setup.py` to run (on my machine) and gets me one step closer to be able to `python test/run_test.py`
* b) Only add whats needed to `python setup.py install`. Point to `Contributing.md` for explanations on how to run tests (which doesn't exactly mention how yet).
```
conda create -n pytorch-source python cmake ninja pyyaml typing_extensions
conda activate pytorch-source
python setup.py develop
```
* c) Add dependencies needed to run (most) unit tests
I assume _"Install from source"_ describes how to "install so I can do development.". This is why we recommend `python setup.py develop`. Doing development implies running unit tests.
```
conda create -n pytorch-source python cmake ninja pytest click
conda activate pytorch-source
pip install -r requirements.txt xdoctest
python setup.py develop
python test/run_test.py --keep-going
```
This still eclectically goes outside the simple principle _"Use dependencies in requirements.txt"_ without solving the whole problem. Instructions to get tests to run is not the goal of this PR.
* d) Point to ex [`.circleci/docker/requirements-ci.txt`](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/.circleci/docker/requirements-ci.txt) or any of the system-specific sets of pinned requirements like [`requirements-{conda-env-macOS-ARM64}.txt`](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/.github/requirements/conda-env-macOS-ARM64)
I don't want to jump into this rabbit hole.
<details>
<summary>My system according to setup.py when verifying it runs</summary>
```
Target system: Darwin-21.6.0
Target processor: arm64
Host system: Darwin-21.6.0
Host processor: arm64
Detected C compiler: AppleClang @ /Library/Developer/CommandLineTools/usr/bin/cc
CMake: 3.22.1
Make program: /opt/homebrew/Caskroom/miniconda/base/envs/pytorch-source/bin/ninja
Python version : 3.10.8
Python executable : /opt/homebrew/Caskroom/miniconda/base/envs/pytorch-source/bin/python
Pythonlibs version : 3.10.8
Python library : /opt/homebrew/Caskroom/miniconda/base/envs/pytorch-source/lib/libpython3.10.a
Python includes : /opt/homebrew/Caskroom/miniconda/base/envs/pytorch-source/include/python3.10
Python site-packages: lib/python3.10/site-packages
```
</details>
See details in comments below.
[skip ci]
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/91861
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet, https://github.com/ZainRizvi