[hoo] Add with_effects to handle side effectful ops (#120296)
Proposal: https://docs.google.com/document/d/179QyhicGzTXJ5jvTAoAosP_Nzgf3PpgZwU_E3VV9PlM/edit#heading=h.bnm38nu3yfno
Implementation discussion: https://docs.google.com/document/d/179QyhicGzTXJ5jvTAoAosP_Nzgf3PpgZwU_E3VV9PlM/edit#heading=h.bj61609o1buq
Result with print:
```
graph():
%arg0_1 : [num_users=1] = placeholder[target=arg0_1]
%arg1_1 : [num_users=1] = placeholder[target=arg1_1]
%with_effects : [num_users=1] = call_function[target=torch._higher_order_ops.effects.with_effects](args = (%arg0_1, aten.print.default, moo), kwargs = {})
%getitem : [num_users=1] = call_function[target=operator.getitem](args = (%with_effects, 0), kwargs = {})
%add : [num_users=1] = call_function[target=torch.ops.aten.add.Tensor](args = (%arg1_1, %arg1_1), kwargs = {})
return [getitem, add]
```
Follow ups:
* Add handling to auto_functionalize
* Add support for tokens on the export side
* Add support for tokens on the inductor side
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/120296
Approved by: https://github.com/zou3519
