Always retry curl downloads (#89157)
Modify our curl commands so that they always retry downloads.
By default, curl only retries what it considers to be "transient" errors, based on the server's response. However, curl's estimate of what's transient is very conservative. By adding the --retry-all-errors parameter we'll always retry curl commands.
In particular, I'm hoping this mitigates errors where curl fails with the below error ([logs](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/3468758110/jobs/5794939941))
`curl: (35) OpenSSL SSL_connect: SSL_ERROR_SYSCALL in connection to ossci-linux.s3.amazonaws.com:443`
Some of the modified downloads didn't even have retries, so I added them in
More details: https://everything.curl.dev/usingcurl/downloads/retry
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/89157
Approved by: https://github.com/kit1980, https://github.com/malfet
