Expose API for backward execution order (#87507)
In this PR:
- graph_task stores graph roots on construction so that we can later traverse through the graph
- before the nodes are returned, they needed to be converted from raw_ptr to shared_ptr, and this should be OK because the graph is guaranteed to be alive
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/87507
Approved by: https://github.com/albanD
