nvprims bookend non compute (#88457)
Cherry-pickeding: https://github.com/csarofeen/pytorch/pull/2099
1. enabling bookend non-compute-ops pass on nvfuser
2. fixing bookend op check on intermediate tensor as partition inputs
3. python tests added for: `getitem` special handling bookend_non_compute removal
4. patching dfs by excluding dfs within partition to avoid going over recursion limitation
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/88457
Approved by: https://github.com/SherlockNoMad
