Add aot_inductor as a test backend for benchmarking (#105221)
Summary:
Original PR at https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/104977. Landing from fbcode instead.
Add an aot_inductor backend (Export+AOTInductor) in the benchmarking harness. Note it is not a dynamo backend.
Moved files from torch/_inductor/aot_inductor_include to torch/csrc/inductor as a more standard way for exposing headers
Created a caching function in benchmarks/dynamo/common.py for compiling, loading and caching the .so file, as a proxy for a pure C++ deployment, but easier for benchmarking.
Differential Revision: D47452591
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/105221
Approved by: https://github.com/jansel
