[reland][DNNL]:enable conv3d (#40691)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40691
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Differential Revision: D22296548
Pulled By: VitalyFedyunin
fbshipit-source-id: 8e2a7cf14e8bdfa2f29b735a89e8c83f6119e68d
